Nthawi zonse ndi bwino kukhala ndi loya kuti akuthandizeni kukhothi, koma ngati mutapeza kuti muyenera kudziyimira nokha, malingaliro ena ndi awa. Makhothi awiri amayendetsa nkhani zamalamulo apabanja, Achinyamata ndi Ubale Wapakhomo. Yambani powerenga webusaiti ya khoti. Makhoti ena amaika mafomu ndi malangizo. Mwachitsanzo, Cuyahoga County Common Pleas Court, Domestic Relations Division, ili ndi paketi yathunthu yokhala ndi malangizo ndi mafomu pa. momwe mungasulire chisudzulo ndi chisudzulo chanu. Ngati mupita ku ofesi ya kalaliki, kumbukirani kuti akalaliki saloledwa kupereka uphungu wa zamalamulo.
Ngati mukufuna zotsatira zenizeni, yambani ndi kudandaula kapena kusuntha. Gulu lina liyenera kulandira zikalata zomwe mumakapereka kukhoti. Izi zimatchedwa "service". Mutha kufunsa kalaliki wa makhothi kuti "atumikire" gulu lina polemba fomu ya "malangizo a ntchito". Mufunika adilesi yonse ya gulu lina. Kukanika kupereka adilesi yolondola kwa winayo kudzachedwetsa kumva kwanu. Kalaliki adzakutumizirani chidziwitso cha tsiku, nthawi, ndi malo omwe mudzamve. Kumbukirani kudziwitsa wokonza zakusintha kulikonse ku adilesi yanu kapena nambala yafoni. Lembani kalendala yanu kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yomaliza komanso zomvera pamlandu wanu.
Khoti likuyembekezera kuti mukhale okonzeka kuti mumve. Sungani mapepala anu mwadongosolo ndi mapepala kapena zikwatu. Bweretsani kukhoti umboni uliwonse womwe muli nawo wochirikiza mlandu wanu. Mwachitsanzo, kuti mutsimikizire kuti mumapeza ndalama zothandizira ana, muyenera kukhala ndi ma paystubs aposachedwa, ma w-2 ndi zobweza msonkho. Phatikizanipo makope atatu (3) a zikalata zonse zomwe mukufuna kukapereka kukhoti: kope limodzi la woweruza, lina la mnzake, ndipo lachitatu lanu. Komanso, khalani ndi zolemba zilizonse zomwe zidasungidwa ndi inu ndi mbali inayo. Mukhoza kubwereranso ku mapepala awa ngati kuli kofunikira. Itanani mboni zomwe zingakuthandizeni kutsimikizira mlandu wanu. Khotilo likuyembekeza kuti mupereke umboni pofunsa mafunso panthawi yomvetsera. Onetsetsani kuti mukudziwa zomwe mboni zanu zidzanene posankha yemwe ayenera kuchitira umboni.
Mlandu ukakhudza ana, makhoti salola kuti ana anu abwere m’chipinda cha khoti, choncho ndi bwino kukonzekera pasadakhale chisamaliro cha ana.
Ikafika nthawi yopereka mlandu wanu, imani ndi kutsatira malangizo a woweruza kapena woweruza milandu. Onetsetsani kuti mwavala moyenera. Fotokozani zomwe mungafune kuti khoti likuchitireni inu ndi banja lanu. Chofunika kwambiri, fotokozani chifukwa chake izi zikufunika komanso momwe zingathandizire inu kapena chidwi cha ana anu.
Nkhaniyi inalembedwa ndi Legal Aid Managing Attorneys Davida Dodson ndi Tonya Whitsett ndipo inawonekera mu The Alert: Volume 30, Issue 2. Dinani apa kuti muwerenge PDF yonse ya nkhaniyi!