Tshaj tawm rau lub Ob Hlis 11, 2025
11: 47 am
Los ntawm Kimberly Perez
CLEVELAND - Nws yog ib lub ntsiab lus uas tib neeg tseem tawm tsam los tham txog: kev tsim txom hauv tsev.
Tab sis nws yog ib qho teeb meem uas yuav tsis ploj mus. Raws li cov Ohio Domestic Violence Network, tus naj npawb ntawm cov neeg raug tsim txom hauv tsev neeg tuag thoob plaws lub xeev tau nce mus rau nws tus lej siab tshaj plaws hauv kaum xyoo, nrog 157 tus neeg poob lawv txoj sia.
Muaj ntau qhov laj thawj uas tib neeg tsis tawm hauv kev sib raug zoo, tab sis muaj cov koom haum pab thaum lawv npaj txhij.
Ntau tus xav tias daim di ncauj nqaij, qhov muag dub lossis nqaij tawv yog qhov kev ua phem hauv tsev zoo li cas, raws li Alexandria Ruden, kws lij choj rau Legal Aid Society of Cleveland, tab sis nws hais tias nws dav dua qhov ntawd.
"Kev tsim txom hauv tsev yuav yog ib qho kev hem thawj: 'Kuv yuav tua koj.' Kev tsim txom hauv tsev yuav yog ib qho kev ua raws li kuv: 'Nws tab tom saib kuv kuv paub tias nws nyiag kuv lub computer.' Kev nruj kev tsiv hauv tsev tuaj yeem yog kev thawb, "Ruden tau hais.
Ruden sau Ohio txoj cai lij choj kev tsim txom hauv tsev thiab tau pab ntau dua 10,000 tus neeg uas muaj teeb meem kev tsim txom hauv tsev. Nws hais tias nyiaj txiag yog ib qho ntawm ntau qhov laj thawj uas tib neeg nyob.
"Muaj kev ntshai. Ntshai ntawm lub kaw lus, ntshai ntawm tub ceev xwm, ntshai tias nws yuav ua phem rau lawv dua vim tias, dua, kev sib cais yog lub sijhawm uas cov neeg ua phem ua phem rau," Ruden hais.
Legal Aid sawv cev rau cov neeg tau nyiaj tsawg ntawm cov neeg raug tsim txom hauv tsev, tuav txhua yam ntawm kev sib nrauj thiab kev tiv thaiv kev txiav txim mus rau kev saib xyuas.
Thaum tawm ntawm lub qhov rooj yog thawj kauj ruam, uas txhais tau tias tsis muaj qhov chaw mus, raws li Anne Face, CEO ntawm Journey Center for Safety and Healing, ib lub koom haum uas muaj kev kho mob, vaj tse thiab kev saib xyuas thaum menyuam yaus koom nrog.
"Yog tias koj saib cov neeg tsis muaj tsev nyob ntawm cov tsev neeg, 63% yog cov neeg raug tsim txom hauv tsev, thiab qhov ntawd yog qhov ua rau lawv tsis muaj tsev nyob. Yog li, peb muaj kev txhawb nqa vaj tse, kev txhawb nqa nyiaj txiag, thawj lub hlis qiv nyiaj qiv nyiaj, nrog rau kev pabcuam rau tsev neeg, tsim lawv cov vaj tsev tshiab nyab xeeb thiab pheej yig tom qab tawm hauv kev tsim txom," Face said.
Nws hais tias kev tsim txom hauv tsev muaj tshwm sim hauv txhua haiv neeg, qib nyiaj tau los, kev ntseeg, thiab haiv neeg.
"Vim tias nws paub tsis muaj ciam teb. Peb tsis tham txog nws. Peb yeej tsis hnov txog nws. Peb hu nws qhov kev txwv zaum kawg. Tab sis tiag tiag, ib ntawm plaub tus poj niam tau ntsib kev tsim txom hauv tsev loj," Face hais.
Ib ntawm xya tus txiv neej tau ntsib kev tsim txom hauv tsev, thiab Face tau hais tias nws muaj ntau dua li lub cev.
"Kev mob nqaij tawv, peb hais, tab sis cov lus lossis qee tus neeg ntaus koj qhia koj tias koj tsis muaj nqis, txiav koj tawm ntawm koj tsev neeg yuav siv sijhawm ntev dua los kho," Face hais.
Nws hais tias muaj ib yam uas tib neeg tuaj yeem ua los txhawb cov neeg muaj sia nyob.
"Qhov kuv ib txwm qhia rau tib neeg yog ntseeg cov neeg muaj sia nyob. Nws nyuaj heev, thiab qee tus yuav ua siab tawv tiag tiag yog tias lawv qhia qhov ntawd rau koj," nws hais.
Kev mus los pab tib neeg ua txoj kev npaj nyab xeeb yog tias lawv txiav txim siab tawm mus.
Ruden tau hais tias yuav siv li ntawm xya qhov kev sim tawm hauv kev sib raug zoo ua ntej tib neeg tawm mus rau qhov zoo.
"Lawv yuav tsum mus nrog lawv tus kheej lub zog, thiab lawv yuav tsum paub tias peb nyob ntawd rau lawv, tias peb, yog tias lawv hu peb rov qab, peb yuav tsis txiav txim rau lawv, peb tsis txiav txim," Ruden hais.
Yog xav paub ntxiv, koj tuaj yeem hu rau 216-391-help lossis journeyneo.org lossis hu rau Legal Aid ntawm 888-817-3777.
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